The Best Laid Plans....

I had every intention of diving back into Betsy’s Balanced Living this month—writing, connecting with you here, and leading another 40-Day Sugar Fast. But sometimes, life shifts in an instant.

One Tuesday evening, my mom called and needed to go to the ER. What we thought would be a routine check quickly turned into a series of urgent decisions, including whether or not she would undergo surgery. By God’s grace, the surgery was successful, and after a challenging hospital stay, she is now home and beginning her recovery. We are so grateful—for skilled doctors, for answered prayers, and for the many friends who reached out with love and encouragement.

Because of this, I’ve decided to step back for now. The sugar fast will be postponed, and Betsy’s Balanced Living will take a pause as I focus on caring for my mom and being fully present for my family.

I share this because maybe you, too, are in a season where you feel the tension between wanting to do it all and realizing you simply can’t. It’s okay to pause. It’s okay to set things aside. In fact, sometimes the holiest thing we can do is say “not now” so that we can show up wholeheartedly where we’re most needed.

I could have tried to push through with everything I had planned, but it would have led to burnout and mediocrity. Instead, I’m choosing faith, rest, and presence—trusting that God will redeem the waiting and give me strength for the right time to return.

So if you’re wrestling with a full plate and an aching heart today, hear me: you don’t have to do it all. Step back when you need to. The world will wait, and God will meet you in the pause.

Thank you for your patience, your encouragement, and your prayers. I’m grateful for each one of you.

With love,

Betsy